I’ve spent years in veterinary medicine, most recently as a Radiology Lead at a specialty hospital… which basically meant running on caffeine, sarcasm, and tracking down tools someone “just had in their hand.” I’m currently taking a break from vet med, but it’s still close to my heart.
I’m neurodivergent, so subtle social cues tend to fly right over my head, but I always lead with good intentions (and usually a little playful chaos).
I’ve got a tricky memory, so if I repeat a question or forget something you told me, it’s not me ignoring you… it’s just my brain glitching a little.
P.S. I use punctuation and capitalization. No, I’m not mad… that’s just how I type. And if you see a lot of “…” I’m not being passive-aggressive. It’s an autistic tic. My brain enjoys dramatic pauses whether I want it to or not.
Likes & Interests
Marine biology documentaries (sharks have my whole heart, but I’ll nerd out over any marine life), photography, poetry, crochet… specifically battling yarn that refuses to cooperate… nostalgia in all forms, comfort-rewatching TV shows like it’s a paid gig, and people-watching like it’s low-stakes anthropology.
Even though I’m taking a break from vet med, helping ***s and the people who love them is still a core part of who I am. I’m basically a soft-hearted menace with a camera in one hand, tangled yarn in the other, and too much compassion crammed into a small coffee cup.
Dislikes
Rude people, narcissists, spiders (hard pass), and anyone who mocks mental illness. I also don’t love when my AuDHD brain short-circuits at the worst possible moment, or when I overanalyze “I’m fine” like it’s a cryptic riddle at 2 a.m.
BDSM / Dynamic Side
I’m still figuring out what feels best for me, but I know this much… I crave being wanted, safe, and praised. Giving up control in the right setting quiets my chaos. I’ve got strong brat energy with a soft core. I’ll tease, push buttons, and test limits, but only when I feel secure. Safety, patience, and respect matter more to me than labels. If you can ride out my storm with warmth and consistency, you’ll find a very loyal, very soft heart underneath.
Extras
I’m open to connection, learning, and building friendships with people who understand nuance. Respect and openness matter to me. If I mess up, I’ll own it… and I’m always open to correction.